"Good counselors don't tell you what to do. They listen. They ask questions. They then make observations and give suggestions. Jerry Evens does an excellent job of all these things. He's not afraid to speak the truth, but he is first and foremost a friend who enters into your situation to understand and see what is really going on. I speak not as a partner in ministry or even as a friend. Although I am both. I speak as someone who has benefited personally from the honest and insightful conversations that brought healing and direction to my own marriage."